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Running head: RESEARCH PROPOSAL – THESIS, MAJOR POINTS AND A PLAN

ResearchProposal – Thesis, Major Points and a Plan

Iwill conduct my research on the topic, “Coping with the death of aloved one”. I choose to study this problem for the reason that somepeople who have lost their loved ones have a challenge coping withthe loss. Also, for the reason to offer guidance on the steps torecovery from the loss caused by death. I have settled for this topicto offer hope and a new look at life after the passing of a lovedone, to the grieving. The loss remains the phase of life thateveryone fears to endure. The pain of losing a loved one is sometimeshigh that it becomes difficult to have closure. The event of the lossaffect both adults and children differently, and whereas others mayrecollect themselves quicker after the passing of a loved one, otherswould take long getting composed. Therefore, coping with the loss ofa loved one is possible, except it would not take the same period toexperience recovery for everyone.

Deathaffects everyone in one way or another. It could be a parent, asibling, a child, a friend, a grandparent or even a president dying.The loss will always negatively impact on our lives. Therefore, theaudience of this paper is widespread because in one way or anotherall are affected by death, and especially to those who haveexperienced death at their doorstep those who are freshly copingwith the loss of a loved one. I also intend to capture the audienceof the psychotherapists who will find this paper useful in theirpractice for it will offer directions on how their suffering patientsshould be guided through their loss. I also seek to engage theaudience of lawyers to read this research to help them know how tohandle the clients who are grappling with the circumstances of copingwith the death of a loved one. My audience will be those who arereceptive, learned, and capable of disseminating this information byproviding the help that is required to improve the situation of thebereaved.

Thescope of the paper will include dissecting the feelings of thegrieving, showing empathy and walking them through the possible waysthrough which they can undergo resilience. I will illustrate thefactors that compose circumstances in which the bereaved falls backinto self-pity, inhibiting recovery from the experience of losing aloved one, such as guilt. In the same vein, the paper will discussthe scenarios in which those facing death challenges can be subjectedto, to enhance their closure. I will outline the stages of thegrieving process, which entails denial, anger, bargaining, depressionand acceptance.

Iwill in the paper seek to answer pertinent questions raised todevelop the topic. Is death real? Is there pain attached to end? Howlong will a person cope with a loss? Should one be castigated fortaking long to deal with loss? Can one recover from the loss of aloved one? What role should the onlookers play in the resilience ofthe aggrieved person? This questions will develop the topic to giveit a broad perspective. It will delve into the details of thecircumstances that are likely to befall the surviving family, andcreate an understanding on how to face the changes.

Iwill explore some research methods, including literature search,interview, and focus group. Deriving information from interviewsgives the first-hand experience of victims, thus, ascertaining thedocumentation of the events as facts. Literature search offers acomprehensive basis for retrieval of information relevant to thediscussion of the topic. The plan will contain a subject, background,objectives, methods, data, and execution. The plan will demonstratewhat I will cover throughout the paper. I will apply a Peter ElbowSandwich approach in handling the topic, entailing a free writingapproach through formulating questions to find facts.

Apreview of the data I will use stipulates that numerous research hasbeen conducted, demonstrating that social support is beneficial foradjustment following adverse life events. Members of the community inwhich the bereaved is integrated may respond positively to his or herexpressions of death, facilitating post loss adjustment (MacIntosh &ampWortman, 1993).

Also,most prominent theorists have propounded that a significant task ofresolving loss is the development of an understanding of the eventand its implications. “Some scholars and researchers have focusedon the individual’s appraisal of the significance of the case forhis or her sense of life goals and life purpose, and refer to findingmeaning as one’s ability to develop new targets and a new, perhapswiser sense of self” (Davis et al., 1998).

Bereavementalso provides an environment for a particularly strong test of thetheory that immersion on one’s negative emotions prolongs distress.It is because the classic literature in coping with sorrow hasaccented the value of focusing on the negative emotions stimulated byone’s loss in proper adjustment to the loss (Nolen-Hoeksema et al.,1998).

Reference

Davis,C. G., Nolen-Hoeksema, S., &amp Larson, J. (1998). Making sense ofloss and benefiting from the experience: two construals of meaning.Journalof personality and social psychology,75(2),561.

McIntosh,D. N., Silver, R. C., &amp Wortman, C. B. (1993). Religion`s role inadjustment to a negative life event: Coping with the loss of a child.Journalof personality and social psychology,65(4),812.

Nolen-Hoeksema,S., Parker, L. E., &amp Larson, J. (1994). Ruminative coping withdepressed mood following loss. Journalof personality and social psychology,67(1),92.